Wedding invitation etiquette dictates that the dress code, if it’s to be included on the invitation, is is the lower right hand corner of the invitation. If you don’t include a note on attire, the invitation will indicate the dress code. For example, if the invitation is very fancy, guests will likely anticipating a formal, black-tie affair, or conversely, if the invitation on the simpler side, that indicates a more casual dress code.
To help guide you, we’re breaking down what each line means and what it typically includes.
Doctor and Mrs. Ronald KaleyaMr. and Mrs. Barnett Rothenberginvite you to share in their joyat the marriage of their childrenMarin Sami and Joseph BenjaminSaturday, the twenty-ninth of SeptemberTwo thousand twelveat six o’clock in the eveningBrooklyn Botanic Garden1000 Washington AvenueBrooklyn, New YorkDinner and dancing to followBlack tie invited
Mr. and Mrs. Harold Hunter And Mr. and Mrs. George Temple request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their children Morgan Elise and Michael Lavern March 3, 2018 Adelaide Park | 234 Canyon Drive Palm Springs, California
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Alex Clarkson and Emerson Smithfield request the honor of your presence at the celebration of their union Saturday, the fifth of August two thousand eighteen at five o’clock in the evening Mosaic Church Austin, Texas
Held in a religious venue, hosted by both families and the couple
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Salkin request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter Jessie Salkin to Robin Huey the twenty-third of August two thousand and eighteen six in the evening Tavern on the Green Central Park | New York
Very formal invitations include this information on a separate card. Otherwise, it can be printed on the wedding invitation itself if there is room; if the ceremony and reception are held in the same location, you may print “and afterward at the reception” or “reception immediately following.” When the reception is elsewhere, the location goes on a different line. Include the time if the wedding reception is not immediately following the ceremony.
Traditionally, the bride’s parents are the hosts of the wedding, and are named at the top of the invitation, even for very formal affairs. However, including the names of both sets of parents as hosts is a gracious option no matter who foots the bill. Also, more and more couples these days are hosting their own weddings, or do so together with their parents.
Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Coppola request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of Brooke Kennedy to their son Andrew Coppola Saturday, the first of September twenty eighteen at five o’clock in the evening Malibu Rocky Oaks Estate Vineyards Malibu, California
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For a same-sex marriage, of course, the traditional rule of woman first and man second isn’t applicable. You can choose to go in alphabetical order or choose what sounds better. Whether it’s “Emily and Zara” or “Zara and Emily,” it’s going to be lovely either way.
Love is in the airChloe Marie Sinclair & Matthew James DentonHave the honour of announcingtheir marriageon Saturday, the tweny-fifth of AugustTwo thousand eighteenat three o’clock in the afternoonGlochester Catholic ChurchDublin IrelandC + M
In today’s world, many couples find that traditional wording conventions don’t follow suit. Below are our recommendations for handling some common special cases.
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Here are a few examples of standard wording for popular additional pieces. Feel free to use these examples as a starting point and change, edit, or rearrange the different lines to reflect your wedding’s unique character.
Mr. and Mrs. Jacob Stevens And Mr. and Mrs. Luke Harrison request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their children Melissa Allison Stevens to Robert Thomas Harrison Saturday the ninth of June two thousand and eighteen at five o’clock in the evening Cathedral of Christ the King Atlanta | Georgia
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The phrase “request the honor of your presence” is typically reserved for a church or place of worship. You are welcome to spell it as either “honor” or “honour”. Just make sure you match it on your reply card with “favor” or “favour.”
If the ceremony and reception are held at the same venue, it is fine to state “Reception to follow” at the bottom of the invitation. If the reception is held at a different location, it should be treated as a separate event. Include a reception card with the event details as part of the invitation suite.
Held in a secular location, hosted by both families and the couple
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Here’s a helpful guide for how to word your wedding invitations. Remember, Minted Design Associates can work with you personally to determine wording that speaks to your unique event.
Mr. and Mrs. Sherman Stanley request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Taylor Marie to James Lee Saturday, the sixteenth of June twenty eighteen at two o’clock in the afternoon Saint Johns Church Richmond, Virginia
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(Note: The British spelling of “honour” traditionally indicates the ceremony will be held in a church or another house of worship.)
There are many ways to ask for the pleasure of your guests’ company. Here are few options:
Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Are Gettin’ Hitched! Please join us For a celebration of love, friendship, laughter, and family Saturday, June 7, 2019 at 4:30 in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Fabulous food, fun, and festivities to follow ——— Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Invite you to join the fun as they stand together before family and friends extending their friendship to include the vows of marriage. Saturday, June 8, 2019 at 4:30 in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner, dancing, and merriment to follow ——— Girl met Girl. For the rest of the story join Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner, Dancing & Merriment It’s outside, so stiletto heels might be a problem! ——— Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan are tying the knot! Saturday, June 8, 2019 at four-thirty in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner, Dancing & Merriment to follow Please bring an instrument if you have one ——— Because you have believed in them, Celebrated with them, Loved and encouraged them, We, Ingrid West, Chad West, North West, Andrew Keegan, and Brad Keegan, Invite you to join us in honoring our siblings Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan As they celebrate the beginning of their adventure together Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon Dinner and dancing immediately following ceremony Bring your dancing shoes ——— Alexis “It’ll be a cold day in hell” West and Taylor “Not in a million years” Keegan invite you to join them as they swallow their words and join in marriage Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon Frolicking and food immediately following the ceremony ——— What are you doing Saturday, June 8th at 4:30 PM? Nothing? Wonderful! Then get yourself to The Prospect Pavilion! Alexis and Taylor with the support of their families wish you to witness and celebrate their wedding reception to follow ——— Love truly, drink deeply, and dance badly Alexis and Taylor are getting married June 8, 2019 The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Open bar, so you know it’s on! ——— He asked, and she said yes… or was it the other way around? However it happened Alexis Lee and Taylor Eliot are getting married and ask you to join them on Saturday, the eighth of June Two thousand nineteen at four thirty in the afternoon at The Prospect Pavilion Brooklyn, New York
For more specifics, we asked invitation expert (and no-nonsense none-too-traditional lady) Kimi Wert of Printable Press to provide some wedding invitation wording samples that vary from classic to whimsical.
Dr. Vance and Elizabeth Gregoryand Mr. James Abner and Lydia Abnerand Mr. Harold and Jane Hylandinvite you the wedding of their childrenAmy Abner and Charles Hyland01.06.18 | 4 p.m.Our Lady Queen of Angels Catholic ChurchNewport, CaliforniaReception immediately after
Because of that, the conventional structure of wedding invitations can be a helpful starting point. Here is a general outline of how the wedding invitation often breaks down, with specific examples to follow.
Choosing the right wording for your invitation suite can be tricky, but the process doesn’t need to be stressful. The most important thing to remember is that the wording should reflect the overall style of your special day. Below are a few simple rules of thumb that will get you headed in the right direction.
I mean, come up with wording that makes you and your partner happy and causes minimal family stress. Because for whatever reason, family (being family) sometimes use wedding invitations as a flashpoint to unpack allll the family drama.
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The good news is that wedding invitation etiquette rules aren’t that complicated, after all. The rules are actually much simpler and straightforward than you think. And no matter the case, they’re there to serve as a guidelines. The most important rule of all is that you create a beautiful wedding invitation that represents you, your love and the big day to come (and communicates the vital details of the wedding) – so feel absolutely free to riff off these wedding invitation wording rules to create your own.
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An information card is enclosed with your wedding invitation and allows couples to provide guests with any additional information you want them to have (transportation information, lodging suggestions, etc.).
The street address of a venue is not usually needed, unless omitting it would lead to confusion or your wedding is taking place at the host’s home. The city and state should be written out in full in either case.
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Rachel & Zachare getting marriedOctober 19th 2013Four o’clock in the eveningat theSanta Barbara Museum of Natural HistoryDrinks Dancing Shenanigans to follow
Women who are widowed should be addressed according to their late husband’s name, with “Mrs.” as the title (i.e., Mrs. George Brown).
To determine the RSVP by date, a good rule of thumb is to allow guests half the time between receiving the invitations and the date of the wedding. If you send your invitations eight weeks in advance of your wedding, set the reply by date 4 weeks from the wedding.
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Together with their parents Ainsley Madison & Everett Archer joyfully invite you to join their wedding celebration September 28th, 2018 at five o’clock Desert Botanical Garden Phoenix, Arizona reception to follow
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Together with their familiesStephanie May MattersenandTaylor Grant KealeyRequest the honor of your presence as theyTie the knotFriday May Twelfth, Two Thousand FifteenAt two o’clock in the afternoonConservatory GardenCentral ParkNew York, New York
We’re getting married!Ben & PilarPlease join us10.11.2014at 5:30 p.m.Panorama Hills
Activities cards can be very helpful when it comes to weddings with many out-of-town guests. The activities card outlines organized activities, meals, and other events taking place over the course of the days surrounding the wedding. Our wedding minibook card™ is a great alternative to a tri-fold or flat piece.
Grace and Russell Fitzpatrickare gettin’ hitched!August 4th 2016Join us at 5 o’clockThe West Palm825 Oceanside AveSt. PetersburgMerriment to follow
Most couples choose to include a separate response card for guests to fill out and return in the mail. You also have the option of having people RSVP via your wedding website. If that’s the case, include the website address on a separate card, just as you would with an RSVP card, and indicate that guests can let you know if they can come directly on the site.
Now that you’ve picked out your stationary, it’s time to take on wedding invitation wording — whether you want to keep the wording classic and traditional or creative and whimsical is up to you, but whatever route you choose, there are still basic elements that should be included no matter what.
Naomi and HarrisonDr. and Mrs. Donnor Salvatore Quetteand Mr. and Mrs. Elliot BoaltInvite you to celebrate the marriage of their childrenNaomi Grace Quette and Harrison Luke BoaltSaturday, the fifth of November, two thousand and sixteenSix o’clock in the evening | The Inn at Serenbe | Palmetto, Georgiafollowed by dinner & dancing
Mr. and Mrs. Greg Thompson request the honor of your presence at the marriage of Analisa Cooper to their son Alex Thompson Saturday, the ninth of July Two thousand eighteen At four o’clock in the afternoon St. Ignatius Loyola Church 980 Park Avenue, New York
If it’s a collaborative affair hosted and paid for by the bride, groom and both sets of parents, you can also use “Together with their parents, Emma and Jax request the pleasure of your company …”
Skyler Kline + Reed Pollock request the pleasure of your company at their wedding celebration Saturday, the fifth of May, twenty eighteen six in the evening The Ace Hotel Palm Springs, California
The wedding invitation is not the place to mention registry information. This information is typically communicated by word of mouth or included with bridal shower invitations. Minted’s FREE Wedding Websites provide a wonderful opportunity for couples wanting to share registry details directly with their guests.
Another popular approach is to offer a series of checkboxes and lines to direct the information you want.
Please join Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan as they exchange vows and together with their son, Michael, celebrate their family Saturday, June 8, 2019 4:30 in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York ——— Mom Name and Dad Name Invite you to join the family for a reception honoring Alexis and Taylor New Last Name Saturday, June 8, 2019 4:30 in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York ——— Please join us As we celebrate new beginnings and new love at the marriage of Alexis Lee West to Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, June 8, 2019 4:30 in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion Cocktails, Dinner, and Dancing to follow
With great pleasureStacey BullingtonandPeter Cunninghaminvite you to join themat the celebration of their marriageSaturday, July 9, 2016at two thirty in the afternoonSanta Barbara Courthouse – Mural RoomSanta Barbara, CaliforniaDinner and dancing to follow at Casa de la Guerra
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In reality, wedding invitation wording is a place where you might want to get creative… but not TOO creative. No matter what beautiful form they come in (old fashioned post, email, on a balloon, sent by a flock of pigeons, unrolled as a poster), they still need to convey some basic information. Who are you? What are you doing? When and where are you doing it? How you share that information can express anything from your values to the kind of wedding you’re going to have to your artistic taste. But an invitation still is, in its most basic form, a simple means of passing along information. Nothing more, nothing less. (So tell your mom to calm down.)
The word “and” in between two names traditionally implies that those people are married. Names of unmarried hosts or guests should be stacked.
Mr. and Mrs. Robert DombiInvite you to join in theCelebrationof the marriage of their daughterLindsay Marie toEric JamesSon of Mr. and Mrs. Jay TkaczSaturday, May 11Two thousand thirteenat one thirty in the afternoonSt. Mary’s Star of the Sea145 Main St. // Unionville, CTAdult reception to follow at 4:30 p.m. // Farmington Gardens
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If the bride or groom’s parents are divorced and you want to include both as hosts, you can include them all, just keep your each parent on a separate line. If you’re going to include the name of stepparent, keep it on the same line. It might seem complex at first, but all it requires is a few more lines. This is an example of a bride with divorced (and remarried) parents’ wedding invitation wording:
For the wedding suite, try not to use abbreviations. Traditionally, middle names, street information, and state names are spelled out. If you do choose to list the date or any other information in a more casual manner, be consistent across all pieces of the invitation suite.
If you want to include the name of a parent who is deceased, you’ll need to rearrange things a bit, as someone whose passed can’t actually serve as a host. An alternate way, then, to include a deceased parent just means rearranging the wording a bit. Try this, for example:
Together with Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Rodríguez and Mr. and Mrs. George Thompson Gabriele Nicole Rodríguez and Micah Benjamin Thompson request the honor of your presence at the celebration of their union Saturday, the twenty-sixth of May Two thousand eighteen at six o’clock in the evening Saints Peter and Paul San Francisco, California
Mr. and Mrs. Harold Hunter And Mr. and Mrs. George Temple request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their children Alexandra Marie to Nathan Louis Saturday, June 9th, twenty eighteen at six o’clock in the evening De Young Museum San Francisco, California
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Mr. and Mrs. Lucas DarbyRequest the pleasure of your companyat the wedding of their daughterRachel FayetoMark Sebastian CatalanoSaturday, the twenty-fourth of SeptemberTwo thousand and elevenat half after five o’clockUbud Hanging GardensBali, IndonesiaReception to follow
Together withtheir ParentsHornorand ChristopherHannigan inviteyou to attendtheir weddingceremonySunday August25th 2013 at 6 pmSt. Regis ResortMonarch BeachCalifornia
Mr. and Mrs. William Edward Manningrequest the pleasure of your companyat the marriage of their daughterNicole Manning to Cameron West09.10.2015 at 4pmGramercy Park Hotel | New York CityCocktails, dinner & dancing to follow
You can personalize how you ask for replies, but remember to keep the wording consistent with the invitation. For example, “the favor or a reply” typically matches the invitation wording “the honor of your presence.” For less formal invitation wording, such as “request the pleasure of your,” the RSVP wording would typically be “Kindly reply by” or “Kindly respond by.”
The wedding ofDierdre Watters Normanand Peter Francis CarrSt. Luke Roman Catholic ChurchRiver Forest, IllinoisNovember 21, 2009
Held in a casual location, hosted by both families and the couple
Formal and/or traditional weddings being held in a church and hosted by the divorced parents of the bride (include parents’ names on separate lines)
Mr. and Mrs. Jack Donnelly request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of Danielle to their son Carter June second, 2018 Trou Normand 140 New Montgomery Street San Francisco 5:30 PM
Please join us for the wedding ofPatricia Ahn & Caleb WrightSundayThe 4th of December, 2013at half past seven in the eveningThe FoundryLong Island, New Yorkreception to follow
Ms. Elaine Robbins Mr. Bradley Hunter request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Victoria Viane to Stanley Jameson August twenty-first, twenty eighteen at five o’clock in the afternoon Lafayette Courtyard Chicago, Illinois reception to follow
Julia French, daughter of Mr. Adam French and the late Iris French,andAustin Mahoney, son of Mr. Camden and Elizabeth Mahoney,request the honor of your presenceat their weddingon the fifth of May, two thousand seventeenat one o’clock in the afternoonThe Reagan LibrarySimi Valley, CaliforniaDinner & dancing to followBlack tie required
Mr. and Mrs. Robert BakerRequest the pleasure of your companyat the marriage of their daughterEmily LouisetoMichael Chase WalkerSaturday, December 15, 2012at five o’clock in the eveningThe Union ClubBethesda, MarylandDinner and dancing to follow
Mom Name Dad & Step-Mom Name request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter Alexis Lee West to Taylor Eliot Keegan son of Other Mom Name and Step-Dad Name Other Dad Name Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow ——— Mom Name and Dad Name Other Mom Name and Step-Dad Name Step-Mom Name and Other Dad Name request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their children Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Reception to follow ——— Mom Name and Dad Name request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Alexis Lee West to Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Reception to follow ——— Mom Name invites you to share in the celebration of the marriage of her daughter Alexis Lee West to Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow ——— Mom Name Mom Name and Dad Name invite you to share in their love and joy at the marriage of their children Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June Two thousand nineteen at four thirty in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow Black tie encouraged ——— Together with their families (and cats) Alexis Lee West to Taylor Eliot Keegan Request the honor of your presence as they Tie the knot Saturday, June Eighth, Two Thousand Nineteen At four thirty in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York ——— Mom Name and Dad Name request your presence at the wedding of their daughter Alexis Lee and Taylor Eliot son of Mom Name and Dad Name Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow
If the wedding ceremony and reception are being hosted in the same location, there is no need for a reception card. At the bottom of the invitation, you can simply state “Reception to follow” or “Dinner and dancing to follow”.
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Daley request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter Sydney to Elliot April 7th, 2018 Foreign Cinema San Francisco 5:30 PM
Together with Mr. and Mrs. Harold Finley And Mr. and Mrs. George Billerman Kennedy Finley and Ezra Billerman request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage September 8th, 2018 at five o’clock in the evening DeYoung Museum, San Francisco RECEPTION TO FOLLOW
There you have it: Everything you need to know about wedding invitation wording etiquette, complete with twenty-two example of how brides handled their own wording. Hopefully these real invites will help guide you as you create your own. No matter what you choose, keep it true to your own tastes and you’ll come up with a wedding invitation you’ll treasure forever!
Reese Kerrigan and Hunter Campden request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their union Saturday, August twenty-fifth Two thousand eighteen seven o’clock The Four Seasons Plaza St. Germain Road, Chicago dinner and dancing to follow
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Please join usfor our weddingRachael Jordan&Ryne DotyJanuary 3rd20154:00pmGriffith Observatory2800 E. Observatory Rd.*Dinner to follow at *Blue Palms Brewhouse 6124 Hollywood Blvd
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Katie & Jacobwould love your presence in celebrating their marriageMay 23rd 2013 | 3 o’clock in the afternoon2701 Hodges Blvd., Jacksonvill FL 32296Reception to follow
Jerry & Georgian Sadowskiand Gary & Georgia Byrneinvite you to celebrate with their children,Julia & Davidon their wedding dayFriday | 07 Sep 12 | 3:30 p.m.Cortelyou Commons, DePaul University: CeremonyPeggy Norbert Nature Museum: Reception 6 p.m.
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If there names haven’t been included in the host line, they should still take center stage a few lines down. No one would forget to add this to a wedding invitation, of course, but you might be wondering whose name should go first on a wedding invitation? Traditionally the name of the bride always precedes the groom’s name. Formal invitations issued by the bride’s parents refer to her by her first and middle names, the groom by his full name and title; if the couple is hosting by themselves, their titles are optional.
All wedding invitations should include the following elements:
Together with their families Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow ——— With great pleasure Alexis Lee West & Taylor Eliot Keegan invite you to join them at the celebration of their marriage Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner and dancing to follow ——— The honor of your presence is requested at the marriage of Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Reception immediately to follow The Boathouse 163 Greenwood Avenue ——— With great joy you are invited to celebrate the marriage of Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Dinner, Dancing & Merriment to follow ——— Because you have shared in our lives and supported our love, we Alexis Lee West and Taylor Eliot Keegan request the pleasure of your company at our marriage Saturday, the eighth of June two thousand nineteen at half past four in the afternoon The Prospect Pavilion 409 Ocean Parkway Brooklyn, New York Reception to immediately follow ——— We’re getting married! Alexis & Taylor 06.08.2019 at 4:30 p.m. The Prospect Pavilion Cake and punch reception to follow
Wording for additional pieces in the wedding invitation suite varies widely. Couples should take their style, ceremony, and budget into consideration.
What To Include In Your Wedding Invitation Wording, Line By Line The Host Line: The first line of the wedding invitation is where you list who’s hosting the wedding. In times past, the bride’s family always hosted (and paid for) the wedding.
Thankfully, those days are done. Hosting the wedding is, in the end, a (mostly meaningless) honor that you get to choose how to pass out. Both (or all) your sets/singles of parents can be listed as hosts.
If you have five sets of parents and you want to list them all—go for it. One set of parents might be listed as hosts. You can host the wedding yourself, in which case the lines are reversed “Terry and Renee invite you to…” or the host line is omitted entirely.
You can also make the host line more general “Together with their families.” There are two issues worth noting here. Firstly, no matter who says what in the course of guilting you, the host line on the wedding invitation isn’t for sale; it’s an honor that you should bestow in a way that makes you feel comfortable.
Names are not listed in order of who paid more (or who paid at all). And secondly, this particular honor is generally only used for the living (since these people are, ostensibly, inviting you to a party).
A common way to honor the dead is to alongside a member of the couple’s name as “Renee Smith, daughter of Beth Smith,” or “Renee Smith, daughter of Iris Milfrid and the late Beth Smith.” The Invitation Line: This is where you actually invite people.
“The honor of your presence” is traditionally used to denote a religious service while “The pleasure of your company” is used to denote a secular one, though you can use any phrasing you want.
This is where you actually ask people to join you, so feel free to set the tone with anything from “Invite you to share their joy as…” to “Want you to come party with us when…” The Names: This line seems self-evident until you start thinking about the details.
Whose name goes first? (That honor traditionally belongs to the bride, but what if there are two brides? Or all grooms? Or you just don’t want to do it that way?) Will you list both last names, or one last name, or no last names? Will the names be on the same line or different lines? There are no right or wrong answers (though I’m partial to listing everyone’s last name), but several good questions.
The Action Line: What are you inviting people to share in? Traditionally, with the bride’s parent’s hosting, this line read something like “At the marriage of their daughter,” but your line might read “At the celebration of their marriage,” “As they exchange vows of love and commitment,” or “As they finally tie the knot.
” The Information: This is the one line where I strongly advise you to stick to the basics, since you want people to actually come to this thing. Time, date, and location should all be listed (though the address does not have to be, assuming it’s otherwise easy to find).
The Party Line: What’s coming after the wedding? This is both your time to get celebratory and your time to give guests a solid idea of what to expect. If you’re not serving a full meal, this would be a great place to say “Cake, punch, and revelry to follow”; this line could also say “Dinner and dancing immediately following,” or inform them of a gap of time or location change, “Party to follow at 7pm at Delfina.
” You can also use this line to just get creative and set the tone for the celebration. “Wild celebration to follow,” “Confetti and magic to follow,” “Join us for an intimate dinner following…” Here, the sky really is the limit.
Who’s hostingThe request to come to the weddingThe names of the bride and groomThe date and timeThe locationReception informationDress codeSeparate RSVP cardTake on Wedding Invitation Wording Line by LineThe Host Line: Who’s Hosting
Ms. Noelle Miller Mr. and Mrs. Bradley Cartwright request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Skylar Grace to Gabriel Neal Saturday, the tenth of June two thousand and eighteen at five o’clock in the evening First Church New Vernon, New Jersey reception to follow
Amelia Bell + Jake BradleyRequest the honor of your presenceon their wedding daySaturday, the eleventh of JuneTwo thousand and sixteenat half past six o’clock in the eveningthe First Congregational Church of Wells
For formal weddings, everything is written out in full (no numerals). The year is optional (the assumption being your wedding is on the nearest such date). Time of day is spelled out using “o’clock” or “half after five o’clock.” The use of a.m. or p.m. is optional. For casual weddings, numerals are fine.
Together with their familiesPhilip Parker&Heath HartsellInvite you to join them as they say “I Do!”Saturday, the twenty-first of August | two thousand eighteenSix o’clock in the evening | New Orleans, Pharmacy Museum, New Orleans New LouisianaDinner, dancing & drinks to follow | Black-tie optional
Please join us for an evening reception Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres at 5:00pm Dinner will be served at 6:00pm The Cask Room at the Hart House 5257 Deer Lake Avenue dancing and merriment to follow
The favor of a reply is requested by the thirty-first of May